Salam. hi!
fuh. it has been almost few months i didn't update any entry here. too caught up with life recently. with the never ending tasks.lol. the other side of life that i have just recently found. new activities with friends. ;)
there are several things happened the past 3 weeks. and to be honest, it was a lesson learned. orang kata, learn from the bitter experience. tapi bagi saya, kalau tak pahit..kita tidak akan tahu sebenar-benarnya apa yang kita rasa di dalam hati. mungkin terasa, tapi diabaikan until tornado comes.
in relation (any kind..be it friendship, love, family bond) sesetengah orang tak suka pergeseran/pergaduhan. tapi seperti kata MD saya, some frictions won't hurt. we need it to make it run smoother.
cuma terdapat 2 probability saja bila ada konflik.
1. it's either the bond will get stronger and you become closer to each other.
2. you lose it all.
sebab selepas konflik, things will change and it depends on how we see, measure, and do the counter measure afterwards.
someone said to me; i am an egoistic person. true. memang betul pun. be it with anybody else. no tolerance once ego saya terusik. tapi itu bergantung kepada situasi. most of the times, saya lebih suka berdiplomasi. i hate friction to be honest. that would be the last thing i would involve in unless terpaksa.
pengalaman-pengalaman lepas banyak mengajar, keeping your own pride while hurting others tak banyak membantu. especially when it comes to your loved ones; family.
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